Divorce Proceedings and The Court System

If you knew what to expect in the courtroom during a divorce proceeding, it would shine light on the complexity of the process. This will better prepare you with an understanding of how the legal system works. When it comes to family matters such as divorce, the court takes a sensitive approach, especially if children are involved.

The Divorce Hearing

During the divorce hearing, the setting and individuals involved can cause parties to be emotionally charged. If you are one of the parties involved, it is best to keep your emotions in check. The judge does not like when anyone explodes in the courtroom. You could be charged for contempt of court. You have to exercise constraint. If you are one of the parties that exhibit care and concern for the children, the judge will admire your decisive stance. If you are unsure about the process, it is best to employ an experienced attorney for legal counsel and advice. This will ensure that none of your rights are violated either.

The Legal Case

As in all other legal cases, everyone in the courtroom has to show respect and courtesy to the judge and the lawyers in attendance. If you utter any vulgarity against anyone in the courtroom or the defending lawyer, it will be seen as something negative against you. You will be asked questions by the defending attorney, by the judge and by your attorney, of which, you have to answer succinctly and directly. Your attorney will prepare you for those questions and possibly advise you on how to answer them. With the help of your attorney, you will be ready to take this as a positive experience to get closure, in light of the situation.

Your Emotions

Never lose your temper. This cannot be stressed enough. It could decide the outcome of your case. If you use harsh words, the scenario of the case could change and may result in a decision that could negatively impact your life and everyone else in the family unit. So, it is really important to stay focused on what you want to accomplish and nothing else. Issues of the past will be raised and could interfere with your composure, but try to stay as composed and quiet as possible. Speak only when you are spoken to. When you are answering questions, always remember your children and what is at stake. Never assign blame. What has been done is in the past. You are trying to move forward. Act like it.

The Documentation

The judge and defending attorney will want to see documentation as to the verification of what you are claiming. Be sure to produce these to your attorney before the court hearing. Make sure that you don’t falsify any documents or this could be ruled against you. For instance, if you wanted to have custody of the children, you would have to show that you are the best caretaker for those children. You could produce documents such as:

  •       School attendance records
  •       Daycare attendance records
  •       Doctor’s prescriptions
  •       Rental agreement
  •       Real estate property deed

In a divorce case, the legal aspects can be confusing. It is best to seek the advice of an attorney that is experienced in the courtroom. You may not be able to win your legal battle without one